A Game without Rules

It seems that in modern concrete jungle the rules of love game have changed and it became impossible to define who is the victim and who is the hunter in it. The social role of women is rapidly changing and the initiate in starting the relations is not viewed as inappropriate behavioral pattern any more.

In childhood the women were told not to call the men first or invite them somewhere and it was right for that time. But now, as the women became equal to men in terms of income, carrier promotion and political influence the gender archetypes are not working any more. Eye shooting ceased to be the only weapon of women in hunting for men and the modern principle of action is the following – if you want to have something (or someone) just go and take it (or him).

For women initiative is double-edged weapon. On the one hand, the leading position gives you more confidence and satisfaction from the situation. But on the other hand, the passive side, that is, man, is less interested in continuation of the acquaintance. The victim acquires the position of the “choosing” one which is, no doubt, more convenient and less risky as the initiator is already on the hook of his desire to know the other person better.

However, with the change of social role of women their psychological essence still remains the same. No matter how strong and pushing a woman can be, there will always come a moment when she will want to be weak and feel protected. So, it is important to learn not to control everything and everyone all the time and give a man the opportunity to decide and be responsible for his decisions in order to be in harmony with your social and female self.

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1 thought on “A Game without Rules

  1. Feriehus Bodrum

    I do not comment, however I looked at a few
    of the comments here A Game without Rules | Soar into Sky.
    I do have a few questions for you if it’s okay. Could it be simply me or do a few of the responses come across as if they are written by brain dead individuals? 😛 And, if you are posting on additional online social sites, I’d like to follow everything fresh you have to post.
    Would you list of every one of all your social community sites like your linkedin profile, Facebook page or twitter feed?


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